December 31, 2012 Words from 'Words of Ribbon'

Today is the last day in 2012. It's also my Mom's birthday. Happy Birthday Mom! It's raining in the BVI right now and I am happy for the showers. My plants get a renewal and that heavenly sustenance that will help them to grow and produce more.

Resolutions are not my thing and I don't plan on making any. I think we should aim to be our best every day of the year. We know that we need to set budgets and eat more healthy food. We know we need some form of exercise. First, we need to accept out situations as what they are and then aim to do better.

So if there is any resolution, it should be one to accept that a problem is present and seek ways to solve it - regardless of how painful it is. I plan to continue my strict budgeting, picky eating, walking, gardening, blogging, writing, going to church and other activities. I am comfortable with that. When it comes to work, I will continue to function in the post that I am in until I secure something else that I prefer. It is what it is - I have to just keep doing what I am supposed to and continue looking for what I want.

Life is not complicated.....we complicate it.

Live....Love....Do What You are Supposed to!

All the best for 2013!

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Hashim- Jumpin' OFFICIAL Music Video [S.W.A.T- The Mixtape]

Finally Seeing "A Series of Unfortunate Events"

After playing the internet game, "A Series of Unfortunate Events", I was today finally able to see the movie. Unfortunately, I did not see the beginning but from the time I saw the characters on TV, I knew it was the movie. Somehow, I enjoy these types of fantasy movies. Maybe it was the books that I was exposed to growing up.

I read a lot of fairy tales, the Chronicles of Narnia and a lot of Nancy Drew. I just loved to read (and now I 'claim' to be a writer). Somehow these stories and movies with the unique characters have made some impact on me. I feel that I can do anything I put my mind to. Thank God, today I stand where I am comfortable in my own skin.

We all need to have a little imagination and some optimism. I think that is why the Bible was put together so that we can have hope in God. The fairy tales, which some people frown on for different reasons, also present some semblance of hope. Be wise in what you do and always seek divine guidance.

So for 2013, if you want to sing, get lessons and sing. If you want to write, get a pen and start. Just start and stay committed to what you want to do and achieve.

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Season's Greetings!!!!

Have a blessed day today!
Be sweet in everything you say
Even if you don't get your way
Be sure to watch and pray!
So in your work and play
whether your hair is black or gray
and no matter in what direction you sway
Remember God when you start your day!!!!!!!!!!

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Christmas Eve Blog Post

Children have the greatest imaginations. My daughter has me playing  with dollies from time to time and I enjoy doing it with her. She chats a lot and she's a cool little six year old. My son loves trucks - he's draws them, he pretends that he is one and anything in his hand becomes a truck. he's a happy eight year old.

They are both pretty contented with themselves, other than when they start to fight with each other. However, they say that's a part of growing up. I never experienced the closeness with my siblings growing up - actually until I was already 16 - so it's all new to me still.

As it relates to Christmas, I'm not all about the shopping and hopping and popping. For me, it's about giving or sharing what you can afford. I made two gestures this year and would like to do more and not just at this time.

I wish everyone a happy and joyous holiday season and I hope that 2013 is filled with inspiration, improvement and excellence.

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I Need Your Vote for My Facebook Video

I need your vote please! Go to the JTV Channel 55 Facebook page and look for my video, LA Rabsatt's "What Christmas Means to Me" and vote for it, please.

Thank you very much and Happy Holidays!!!!!!
 

POEM: All the best

As I wish for you all the best
I pray that you can withstand our daily tests
for everyday is not a smooth run
and somedays, the race isn't won
but we have to persevere
and sometimes take a dare
to be different
cause even if it's the present
or you're running for the future
make time for structure
so you'll have a balanced life
and you'll enjoy the time
that you spend on this earth
cause after your birth
there's no guarantee on your last day
so live your life in the best way
and do the right things
dance, relax and sing
and most of all pray
so that whether your hair is gray
white or black
you''ll never be taken aback
instead you'll be ready
to face whatever comes

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Taking Corrections

Today, people do not like to be corrected by others. It is sad because we all need to be pulled up when we err. I find that it's even worse with our young people. Many of them do not respect authority in school or in church, and then when they enter the job market, we can only hope that they will do better.

I think it's sad that as a society, we are not willing or are afraid to correct each other when we falter. I make mistakes and sometimes it is the youngest or simplest person that corrects me. I may be taken off-guard, sometimes annoyed or even embarrassed but this does not stop me.

I am seeing cases where young people are out of control and I can only pray that my children will not go down that path. I've already told them that I am serious and I will not reward unacceptable behavior. We have to draw the line somewhere. I also expect the adults around me to give my children encouraging words. I do the same when I see other children, even if I don't know them.

If we all take a blind eye to the wrongs of the world, then we are just as bad as the people committing the crimes. Someone has to take a stand. Now, you will get some rude reactions from the people in general when you try to show them the right way; but this is all part of growing up. You will receive opposition. Everyone will not agree with your decisions.

However, you would have done the right thing. Of course, your approach has to be one that makes the listener want to adhere to what you say. Bombarding people is not the way to go, unless the situation calls for it. In many cases, gentle reminders can work. We have to be careful that we are not 'bad' messengers where our behavior strangles the message.

If you see me going wrong, let me know please and this is the same for my children. I will always try to encourage my people and let's see how we can all help each other improve.

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It's Good to Give

Today I spent my day with Miss Teen Diva, Shaemore Smith, and pageant founder, Camille Merry asking shoppers at Rite Way's Pasea supermarket in Tortola to give little tokens to bless someone who suffers from mental health issues. The support was overwelming and I am very happy.

I have been so blessed by others inmy lifetime and I think that today is a true testimony to the goodness of God. I truly want to thank my friends, visitors and everyone who gave a little token today. The goodies will be dropped off on Monday to the Community Mental Health Centre who will share with the persons they work with.

Even in the wake of the crazed shooting in CT, I feel that the shooter had some issues that were unresolved that caused him to snap. We have to be our brother's keeper and watch out for one another. Who can you help this holiday season - even if it's to prune a tree, wash a car or mop a floor - see who you can give to!

Blessings!!!

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Sharing for this Christmas

Christmas is such a weird time of the year. It becomes too commercialized for me at times but the real reason is to celebrate how great our God is and to commemorate Christ's birth here on earth.

There are so many events: Christmas tree lighting, school concerts, church concerts, parties etc. I honestly prefer to just stay in my corner and relax myself. I guess I've never been one for the whole Christmas thing and from long, I've had my own sense of how things should run.

I don't have time or money to fall prey to the one-sided meaning of this season. I want to be able to give more - even it's more time to a cause. I'm spending my Saturday morning at Rite Way in Pasea in Tortola to do a grocery drive for persons who suffer from Mental Health issues. This is what the season should be about. Sharing with someone and passing it forward. I have to aim to do better and do more for others - not just those who always want something from me - but those who really need me.

So for this season and going forward, I want to see what service I can apply myself too. Think about it and let me know if I'm making sense.

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Let 2013 Be a Year for the Community

People blame a lot of things on a leap year. It's probably because the year is in multiples of four and then February gets 29 days. I think things just happen. Unfortunately, coincidences are events that happen closely together.

It is strange that we have lost a few men - young and old over the past few weeks. Wives are without husbands and children are without dads. However, it takes us back to being a community that sticks together. When something tragic happens in a small country or locale, it affects the entire populace. We all cry because we know someone who was affected.

As 2012 comes to a close and as we enter 2012, let us be more community minded and really focus on sticking together. We have to be our brother's keeper and this is something that I will not stop reiterating. Let us stand together in unity and continue to pray and strengthen each other.

Let 2013 be the year for unity and community spirit.

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POEM: Not On Our Own

We are all sinners
and while we all want to winners
some days it's dimmer
than others
but we have to persevere
and prepare
for the good and the bad
which can come at any moment
but regardless of the outcome
we can't let ourselves become
unfaithful
or ungrateful to God
because he always has our back
and gives us the things we lack
so be strong
cause we might work hard for long
but God won't let us down
or leave us alone
and he won't leave us to fight on our own
so keep the faith
and be patient while you wait
because everyone' journey is different
and each man needs to be content
cause God is omnipotent
and his love has no measurement
it's the same for me
and the same for you
and it's all true

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My Social Media Behavior

I have a certain social media pattern of behavior. I post jokes, poems and inspirational tidbits. I am not about bawling about my job or my family there.

I like sharing cute pics, new items and other social events that are going on. Afterall, it is 'social' media even though it can be annoying and can cause havoc at times. Some people share inappropriate posts and curse a lot.

I try not to do that because everyone's on Facebook and Twitter. I don't really delete anyone. Even the scam artist who listed himself as a UVI alumni when he wasn't. Then he sent out these horrible scam letters to me and others stating that he worked in a bank and knew of bank accounts in my 'family' member's name. RIGHT! I have not deleted him either.

I want to know that I am an inspiration to others. I feel that my story may help someone in their quest so I am happy to share.

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Does Your Career Need a Wake-up Call?

Does Your Career Need a Wake-up Call?

It's a good question, isn't it!

Where do you stand today?
Are you challenged on your job?
Will you be missed if you leave today?
What have you come up with that shows your initiative and leadership?
Where do you want to see yourself in 10 years?

We have to ask ourselves these questions and position ourselves to move to the next level. Whether it's acting in a post or attending training, we have to find ways to get to the next level.

Don't ever be one of those people who sit there watching new people coming into the organization and grumble about the person's qualifications or salary. Instead, see what you can do to get a promotion or for you to be ready for the next level..

It's in your hands. Have you been doing research on your own that can help your organization or help you to be more efficient? Find it and find out how you can be a better employee.

Don't let yourself be passed over!

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December is Here!

Welcome to December. It's the month where people go crazy shopping for the holidays. Most people are in financial ruin after this season because they don't want to look 'less' than anyone else and they want to give a gift to everyone.

People forget about frugality in December and spend like crazy. Some do look for worthwhile causes or special gifts that another person will appreciate. There are many unfortunately who just go shopping crazy just because they can.

I encourage you to give to your loved ones but if you can't afford it, then be honest with yourself. Maybe spending time might be more important. You can also look for one person in the neighborhood that you can share love with. You can seek out a homeless person and drop a meal for them. It can also be a senior as well. Just find one worthwhile cause this season and bless someone.

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Get SMART Today!

As 2012 comes to a close, what have you done to make it a fulfilling year for yourself? What have you accomplished? Have you been able to achieve any of your goals? Or have you been afraid to take risks?

I guess I am very spontaneous because I was able to find new 'adventures' that can take me closer to one of my goals. Financially it is still a struggle but I can't give up. I just have to work with what I have.

Even before 2012 closes out, set some SMART goals to get rolling ahead for 2013. Try to save more money but still have fun along the way. Is there something you want to accomplish like an Associates Degree or to join a non-profit organization? Well, do it! Just don't overdo and take it in strides.

Are you tired because you can't say 'no'? Well this is your time to practice...no, No, NO! Don't let people use you. You should help others yes; but you have to be considerate of yourself.

Whatever your plans are for 2013, don't wait until then to start. Start from this moment, this today.

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