Being a bridesmaid comes with certain responsibilities. A woman
should think about how best she can contribute to the wedding even if it means
declining.
Women who want to have a dream wedding always want a large bridal party
which includes bridesmaids. Many women who are asked to be a bridesmaid see the
request as an honor. On the other hand, other ladies see it as a burden. So
what factors should women weigh when they are asked to be bridesmaids? While
the wedding is all about the bride, bridesmaids do play an important role.
Females should think about their relationship with the pending bride, the costs
involved and their areas of specialty. They should also decide if their
contribution to the wedding is best as a guest or instead as a facilitator. 
Bridesmaids Have Tasks for the Wedding
A bride expects that her bridesmaids will work their hardest to make
the wedding a success. They not only have to look the part by wearing the
dress, hairstyle, makeup, shoes and accessories she chooses, they must be
willing to execute other tasks. Bridesmaids may have to host the bridal shower
and create the wedding favors as well as provide a support system for the
bride.
Who is the Bride-to-be
Is the pending bride a family member, a best friend from high school, a
college roomate or someone recently acquainted through Facebook? The tasks listed
above can become overwhelming if the bride is late in planning the wedding.
Ladies should agree to be bridesmaids because they love and value the bride and
they want to make the wedding a memorable event by working hard.
How Much is Being a Bridesmaid Going to Cost
Being a bridesmaid can be costly if the dress, shoes, accessories and
hairstyle have to be paid for from personal funds. These costs can sometimes run well over $200.00. A
woman would have to look at her personal budget to decide if she can afford to
pay for the bridesmaid items and still purchase a gift. Nancy Tessier in
"The (High) Cost of Being a Bridesmaid" on the Favor Ideas website also
notes that women "may need to get a sitter for the day" for their
children because children are not necessarily invited. Having to contribute to
the bridal shower will also be another expense to add to the list of costs.
Be a Bridesmaid, a Wedding Guest or a Nuptial Facilitator
Considering the requested tasks, the costs and the relationship with
the bride, a lady can decline being a bridesmaid and instead attend the wedding
as a guest while purchasing a nice gift. In addition, if the woman feels that
her contribution would be more meaningful as an usher, booklet or invitation designer,
cook, make-up artist or another facilitator, she should be open with the bride
and offer her assistance.
When asked to be a bridesmaid in a wedding, a lady should carefully
consider the tasks ahead and decide what contribution she is willing to make to
the bride. Sometimes, it is better to sit as a guest or to facilitate the
wedding party in other ways to make the wedding day a grand success. If she
chooses to be a bridesmaid, she must be ready to work hard and late to keep the
bride happy.
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