I am true believer in doing one's best. Why should anyone settle with doing something sub-standard or even below the acceptable line? I guess maybe I'm a little too much or expect too much. I guess my thinking is from another dimension. I also firmly believe that where I have a choice to say no that I should say it.
I find that people in many cases do not understand boundaries. They just take things for granted. When you realize this, you have to start deciding on how you deal with these individuals. I wouldn't say that I would drop a friend because of one incident. Instead, how can I positively influence him or her to do better. Sometimes my behavior might be the problem.
Regardless of what a situation might be, sometimes personal introspection is needed before attacking the problem. We have to seek to solve problems, not make them worse. Think beyond the seams, consult others and pray for guidance. Sometimes the solution may be harsh but there are instances where tough love is needed to correct a problem.
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I find that people in many cases do not understand boundaries. They just take things for granted. When you realize this, you have to start deciding on how you deal with these individuals. I wouldn't say that I would drop a friend because of one incident. Instead, how can I positively influence him or her to do better. Sometimes my behavior might be the problem.
Regardless of what a situation might be, sometimes personal introspection is needed before attacking the problem. We have to seek to solve problems, not make them worse. Think beyond the seams, consult others and pray for guidance. Sometimes the solution may be harsh but there are instances where tough love is needed to correct a problem.
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