Our Differing Views

Everybody has different views. That's the norm. However, it is not reasonable to be upset with me for mine or for me to be upset with you for yours. I especially cannot deal with persons who just have these offset views and will not admit that they are wrong. If there is a rule or law that is passed in an institution or something that is commonly understood and agreed, you are not correct if you go against the norm.

For example, if my children's school states in the dress code that students should wear yellow shirts, how can I send my children to school with orange or green shirts? I like to talk about 'common sense' but it really is not common.

As spring goes into summer, I see people's personal agendas being shuffled out into public forums. Have we lost the sense of the big picture? People are talking about rules that have been in place for years and research reflects that these rules are no different to those in effect in other jurisdictions - close and far.

Interpretation and perception can differ; however, when the rule or law is clearly written, there should be no question. I support that we have our opinions but I will reiterate that I will not stand by or for nonsense. We can agree not to agree with the law or rule - but that's not our fight in every case. Look at your role and act as you ought to.

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A Poppy Show Moment

I like things that make me laugh. I look for funny movies and happy songs. As I write this, I'm listening to a plethora of Phil Collins songs which may not all have a happy message but provide pleasant and easy listening. I had many laughs today and some were because of words thrown out. Humor helped the situations to be dealt with.

In the VI, we have a phrase we use - "poppy show". I don't know the origin of this colloquialism but we usually refer to it someone who is being laughed at and not laughed with based on a behavior they have exhibited. It could also be someone who is trying to get laughs. I have been a "poppy show" before because sometimes you just have to ease the tension.

Today had a combination of both and this is good for me because throughout the tension and trials of day, I was able to exercise my facial muscles. Sometimes, you just have to take a moment for a laugh.

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Bob Marley's Birthday 2015

Bob Marley 2015

"Confrontation" is inevitable
but sometimes it takes a kinda "Rastaman Vibration"
to be able to understand "Survival"
But I really don't want to be "Waiting in Vain"
because there is "So Much Trouble in the World"
and we need to "Wake Up and Live"
In this "Concrete Jungle", "Them Belly Full"
but we know we hungry for knowledge
and "Positive Vibration" needs to be at the forefront
You have to know when too
"Get Up Stand Up"
because everybody has "So Much Things Say"
but you have to pick and choose
and our "Guiltyness" needs to rest on our conscience
but We all have "One Love"
and that is all we need

© Linette Rabsatt for Bob Marley 2015

Revenge vs Karma

How far would you go to take revenge? Is is really worth it? Sometimes you just have to let karma do its job. We focus so much on the petty issues rather than focusing on how we can improve ourselves or build teamwork. Everybody continues to want change but can't deal with it when it comes. You might attempt revenge and then it backfires on you. The person that you despise will move on and continue living. They may even sue you for some behavior or action that you take.

I would say it is better to change your focus than to change your address to a cell at the local jail. Let karma do its job.

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Shine-I- I Got It Bad Official Music Video 2013

Women Can Create a Personal Uniform for Work

Women can visit a good seamstress or a clothing store to create a uniform. Playing with color, style and accessories will keep the uniform fresh and fun.

When a job comes with a uniform, women's clothing choices can become boring or monotonous. However women who do not have to wear a uniform, can have fun with creating a personal uniform for work. While keeping the look professional and together, ladies should consider the choice to sew or purchase, the maintenance and adding flavor to keep the look fresh.

Purchase or Have the Uniform Sewn

Women can opt to shop for pieces in the clothing stores or from a uniform distributor. Another option

would be to purchase the fabric and have a seamstress or tailor sew the clothing. The key things to consider would be the color, style and fit. Even if the clothing is purchased, a seamstress may be needed to adjust the items so that the fit is perfect. Jackets, skirts and pants may be sewn, but it may be more cost effective to purchase the camisoles or blouses for under the jackets from a clothing store.

Color Palette of Work Wear

A personal uniform can be several different colors such as the usual work wear colors - navy blue, black, grey, plum and dark green. Prints that are pin striped, small polka dots or simple plaids are also good choices. There can be one set style or pattern for all the chosen colors or varied colors in different styles. What also works well is mixing colors such as a powder blue jacket with a navy or black bottom.

Choosing Pants or Skirts

A lady should consider her body type when choosing pants or skirts. Most jobs allow women to wear both but it is important that the clothes are not too tight. Ladies should consider their body types when choosing styles. Pencil or a-line skirts and straight-legged pants are usually safe choices for most women but some research on dressing the body-type should be sought to ensure that the fit is the best. According to Melissa Ridenour in Suite 101's ' Fashion Strategies for Slimming: Dressing to Look Thinner ', "straight legged pants give an appearance of slimmer, elongated lines. Pleated pants should be avoided as they add bulk to the middle."

Laundering, Ironing & Dry-cleaning Uniforms

Uniforms can be considered as an investment and therefore should be cared for so that the clothing will last.

• Laundering: Be careful to wash clothing at recommended temperatures and with the right products to avoid fading and lint.
• Dry-cleaning: Items labeled for dry-cleaning should be cleaned at least once fortnightly or once per month based on the usage and soils.
• Ironing: Use the appropriate setting according to the iron's dial. For dark clothing, cover and iron with a white cotton cloth or brown paper and iron so that the clothing will not shine.

Accessories Add Flavor to a Uniform

A plain black suit can be embellished with green costume jewelry, a printed lilac scarf or bronze pumps. When a female creates her own uniform, she is free to have fun with her jewelry, shoes, handbag, scarves and belts. Accessories must still remain work appropriate so large earrings or necklaces, excessive bracelets, sequined belts or other items that are better suited for a night on the town are not allowed.

Women who wish to create a personal uniform should never consider choices as boring or limited because with a little fun, the look can remain fresh. There are many options even if the uniform is purchased from a store or sewn by a seamstress. Have fun with colors and accessories to reduce the monotony. Be sure to take good care of the uniform and all clothing in the closet to get the most optimal and longer use of the pieces.

Moving Forward in 2015

Everyday is a new opportunity to grow and learn. You don't have to be in classroom to learn. Life is your teacher and your daily walk is the classroom. Don't be afraid to be like a plant - seek nurture and refreshment so that your life is filled with new experiences that are positive and help you to develop yourself mentally, emotionally and physically.

There are simple things around us that can teach us and uplift us. The internet is an excellent source of literature but you need to look for reputable sources. You can find the entire bible, inspirational thoughts and messages, games to stimulate your mind and jokes to sooth your spirit and enhance your sense of humor.

If 2014 was a hard year for your financially, you need to consider what was your shortfall and how you can overcome. Budgeting and cutting back are key to financial success. We need to live within our means. Cut back, shop smart and walk with your lunch. This is a hurdle that we all face but there are simple solutions that we can use to get ahead.

Stay focused.

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