Sunday, January 11, 2015

Revenge vs Karma

revenge, karma


How far would you go to take revenge? Is is really worth it? Sometimes you just have to let karma do its job. We focus so much on the petty issues rather than focusing on how we can improve ourselves or build teamwork. Everybody continues to want change but can't deal with it when it comes. You might attempt revenge and then it backfires on you. The person that you despise will move on and continue living. They may even sue you for some behavior or action that you take.

I would say it is better to change your focus than to change your address to a cell at the local jail. Let karma do its job.

Ribbon

Thursday, January 8, 2015

Women Can Create a Personal Uniform for Work

Women can visit a good seamstress or a clothing store to create a uniform. Playing with color, style and accessories will keep the uniform fresh and fun.

When a job comes with a uniform, women's clothing choices can become boring or monotonous. However women who do not have to wear a uniform, can have fun with creating a personal uniform for work. While keeping the look professional and together, ladies should consider the choice to sew or purchase, the maintenance and adding flavor to keep the look fresh.

Purchase or Have the Uniform Sewn
Women can opt to shop for pieces in the clothing stores or from a uniform distributor. Another option
would be to purchase the fabric and have a seamstress or tailor sew the clothing. The key things to consider would be the color, style and fit. Even if the clothing is purchased, a seamstress may be needed to adjust the items so that the fit is perfect. Jackets, skirts and pants may be sewn, but it may be more cost effective to purchase the camisoles or blouses for under the jackets from a clothing store.

Color Palette of Work Wear
A personal uniform can be several different colors such as the usual work wear colors - navy blue, black, grey, plum and dark green. Prints that are pin striped, small polka dots or simple plaids are also good choices. There can be one set style or pattern for all the chosen colors or varied colors in different styles. What also works well is mixing colors such as a powder blue jacket with a navy or black bottom.

Choosing Pants or Skirts
A lady should consider her body type when choosing pants or skirts. Most jobs allow women to wear both but it is important that the clothes are not too tight. Ladies should consider their body types when choosing styles. Pencil or a-line skirts and straight-legged pants are usually safe choices for most women but some research on dressing the body-type should be sought to ensure that the fit is the best. According to Melissa Ridenour in Suite 101's ' Fashion Strategies for Slimming: Dressing to Look Thinner ', "straight legged pants give an appearance of slimmer, elongated lines. Pleated pants should be avoided as they add bulk to the middle."

Laundering, Ironing & Dry-cleaning Uniforms
Uniforms can be considered as an investment and therefore should be cared for so that the clothing will last.
  • Laundering: Be careful to wash clothing at recommended temperatures and with the right products to avoid fading and lint.
  • Dry-cleaning: Items labeled for dry-cleaning should be cleaned at least once fortnightly or once per month based on the usage and soils.
  • Ironing: Use the appropriate setting according to the iron's dial. For dark clothing, cover and iron with a white cotton cloth or brown paper and iron so that the clothing will not shine.
Accessories Add Flavor to a Uniform
A plain black suit can be embellished with green costume jewelry, a printed lilac scarf or bronze pumps. When a female creates her own uniform, she is free to have fun with her jewelry, shoes, handbag, scarves and belts. Accessories must still remain work appropriate so large earrings or necklaces, excessive bracelets, sequined belts or other items that are better suited for a night on the town are not allowed.

Women who wish to create a personal uniform should never consider choices as boring or limited because with a little fun, the look can remain fresh. There are many options even if the uniform is purchased from a store or sewn by a seamstress. Have fun with colors and accessories to reduce the monotony. Be sure to take good care of the uniform and all clothing in the closet to get the most optimal and longer use of the pieces.

Friday, January 2, 2015

Moving Forward in 2015

Everyday is a new opportunity to grow and learn. You don't have to be in classroom to learn. Life is your teacher and your daily walk is the classroom. Don't be afraid to be like a plant - seek nurture and refreshment so that your life is filled with new experiences that are positive and help you to develop yourself mentally, emotionally and physically.

There are simple things around us that can teach us and uplift us. The internet is an excellent source of literature but you need to look for reputable sources. You can find the entire bible, inspirational thoughts and messages, games to stimulate your mind and jokes to sooth your spirit and enhance your sense of humor.

If 2014 was a hard year for your financially, you need to consider what was your shortfall and how you can overcome. Budgeting and cutting back are key to financial success. We need to live within our means. Cut back, shop smart and walk with your lunch. This is a hurdle that we all face but there are simple solutions that we can use to get ahead.

Stay focused.

Ribbon

Friday, December 26, 2014

2014 - Year in Review

2014 has been an interesting year. There have been numerous ups as well as downs. I am thankful for all that I have been given - the easy and the hard blows. I have been truly blessed. 

I still don't have a car but my feet do not hurt. My house still needs some improvements but I am able to meet my mortgage. I don't have fancy lunches and dinners but I am well fed. I can't and won't complain because opportunities have come my way. I have started my Masters and my children are 'A' students. 

I lost my last great uncle on my father's side and my last great-great aunt on my mother's side. Both were spectacular individuals who truly led their families. My daughter also lost a classmate - a very special little individual who even made an impact on me and many others.

Although the blog entries have dropped, my heart is still in my writing - I'm just focusing on academic writing now. As I journey along, I am open to new ideas, but I will remain true to my values. I still enjoy music very much and I'm into my 80s, 90s and early 2000s , not so much the trending music. New music for me would be music from the Virgin Islands and wider Caribbean and John Legend type music. It really has to be catchy to catch me. 

I still enjoy a good comedy/joke and I enjoy the work that I do. I thank God for his blessings.

Ribbon

Wednesday, October 15, 2014

Virgin Islands Representing: Pressure - "Show LOVE" - Official Music Video

This is another big tune by Pressure titled "Show Love". Very inspiring lyrics and mellow melody describe this song. The video does it justice.



Tuesday, September 30, 2014

Thinking Forward - Checking and Improving Self


I'm embarking on an exciting journey - lots of reading and loads of writing. I'm expanding my thought process, my vocabulary and of course the way I deal with things professionally. I've always had my professional ethics and this journey sets me on a different path.

I encourage young people to seek ways to improve themselves. Somehow many think that someone will always be there to help them but you just have to be proactive. While attaining higher education is one step, you have to build your confidence and be self-motivated. Look at volunteerism as a way to build experience and learn new skills. Don't fuss about starting on the bottom - you have to start somewhere. I have had to file, provide basic customer service and photocopy documents - even with a degree; and I am happy to have done those tasks. Of course, I wasn't happy back then, but I appreciate it now.

There's a lot that we can do to move ourselves forward and improve ourselves. To take on a leadership role, we have to be groomed - whether it's in a community service organization, athletics, our churches or in our schools on the PTA. Take a positive step forward and try something new that will enhance you.

Ribbon

Poem: Sweet by Linette Rabsatt