What does a boss gain from holding back his employees?

What does a boss gain from holding back his employees? Do you really want to hold other human beings back from excelling? Do you enjoy manipulating others to the point that they want to scream at you?

We have a tendency to be threatened by people who think differently to us. In relation to me, go ahead and feel threatened because I will not always agree with you. I like when you push my buttons because I am 'the easy dog that bites hard'.

It's hard to believe that a country that has invested millions into educating its workforce still appoints managers who are not willing to promote their own. Who can change this? I am not sure how we can change this mind set. Politicians, by law, can't - only in relation to the Private Secretaries and Permanent Secertaries (for those with Ministerial posts).

It has always been my hope that supervisors would seek the best from their employees. To think that someone would set a road block on your highway to success is almost unimagineable. However, this is real!

What can we do in those sitations? I like to focus on other things that I can use my pent-up energy on rather than dwelling on the negativity. I like to know that I can excel because when I do, it still makes the others (yes - the hypocrites too) look good. They may still want to take the credit for the good I do but I do other good elsewhere so that will always permeate, saturate and dominate my character.

Let them think that they are holding you back because the time it takes them to plot against you, they are only setting traps for themselves.

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POEM: One, Two, Three

One, Two, Three
Some words are coming to me
Big, Small or Free
I want to chart my destiny
I want to live in honesty
I want to scream very loudly
It's all in me
It's all I see
It's all I want to be
One, Two, Three
Happiness is around me
Peace can be a reality
Joy makes it a trilogy
We can take it to the next layer
with the game of all the players
ignoring the naysayers
One, Two, Three
These words that came to be
were put together simply
with the love from within me

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STRESS = Strain. Trials. Resistance. Emptiness. Slothfullness. Shame.

Strain
Trials
Resistance
Emptiness
Slothfullness
Shame

I deal with stress by focusing my energy on other things. I play games, I write, I dance or I sing. i find a project to keep me occupied.

What is your way of dealing with stress? Do you eat or do you starve yourself? Stress can be very harmful. I've never planned to be bald or go grey early.

I have fun and I dance with my children and let that negative engery turn into positive fun and exercise. I do get bogged down sometimes and it's hard to cope, but we have to move forward. Reach out to someone - a family member, a church friend, a mentor, a counsellor or anyone who can help.

Don't let STRESS keep you down or make you unhealthy!

Let's turn the stress into:

Smiles
Triumphs
Resilience
Excellence
Satisfaction
Sanity

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What I want from the leaders

What I want from the leaders

Honesty:
If you can't support my endeavor, if you don't have the funding or can't make it to my event, tell me that. Too many times, the leaders make promises that they know that they cannot fulfill. Stop doing that. That's why we call it politricks!

Commitment:
I am committed to what I believe. If you seek to be a leader of people, you should be committed to the people, just as a shepherd commits to his sheep. When we call on you, we expect a response, even if it's two weeks later. Follow-up even when you have to say no (see point #1). Sometimes, people need a gentle hand to lead them forward, and a push in the right direction may be the push they need - not the white envelope.

Strength:
As you step into the arena seeking public support, there will be barbs thrown in your direction. All your dirty deeds will be unearthed, and your family's secrets will be shared. During this time, you have no choice but to be resilient. Pray and ask others to pray for you because there will be long days and longer nights.

Passion:
If you don't have passion, then leadership is not for you. You have to be willing to stand out and disagree with the masses. You have to be able to fight for your position even when it is not popular. You have to be able to take a firm hand and update and change situations.

Caring:
People who are leaders must first have a love for their fellow man before they can lead us. We don't want a pushover (see #3&4). However, we expect that the country's greatest asset will be the priority. We expect that our health, education, and food security will be priorities. We do not need anyone to baby us but to lead us in the right direction.

Visionary:
Leaders must have a vision. In recent days, we are trying to determine the character and the vision of the persons who are in present leadership. We expect that leaders can determine our needs and after consulting with us, will take the necessary steps to ensure that ideas come to fruition.

There are many more qualities, but these are what comes to mind now.

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"Per Capita" in the BVI - many numbers

The term 'Per Capita' means "A Latin term that translates into 'by head,' basically meaning 'average per person'" according to http://www.investopedia.com.

Our estimated population is about 30,000. We have 5 or 6 radio stations, 3 print newspapers (of which 2 have websites), 2 TV stations and 4 online news publication (not printed). We have 5 ferry companies - four of which travel to the USVI at some point. There are three mobile phone companies, over 10 insurance companies, countless heavy equipment companies and construction companies. We have five commercial banks and one private bank.

We have three major supermarkets who also have outlets. However every week, the four ferry companies carry thousands to the USVI to shop.

We don't have enough farmers to provide meat and vegetables to ensure our food security. Of the farmers we do have, many produce the same crop so it's a constant competition and overflood of the market.

It's election time and everyone wants to be a leader.  I must say that the people need good shepherds who can lead this willing flock. There are 4 announced political parties and another one that is supposed to launch. 30,000 people and 5 political parties! There are also several independent persons who are running. This is a subject I have to delve into further in a future post.

We see where we are over-saturated but as the people say "everybody got to eat." We are at a pivotal moment in our country. We will need to look at our brother for inspiration but we have to come up with fresh and new business opportunities. We have to start doing for ourselves. When we get proactive, we ease up the load off the Government. We like the atmosphere where 'every one can eat' but to whose expense? We are the Government!

As for the would-be politicians, come good!

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Ribbon's Thoughts on July 7, 2011

To all the people who prayed,
I thank you.
To the people who murmurred nasty words,
God Bless you.
To those who wish to see me down,
It's OK.
To those who give me fake smiles,
that's alright.

To those who are under pesecution right now,
I'll pray for you.
To those who I thought bad of,
I am sorry.
To you who I have envied,
please forgive me.
To you who I have wronged,
pray for me.

It's not all about
who's wrong or right
because in the overall sight
God is the only right
and none of us want to be left
behind in this world
so we ought to do right
live right
and treat our brothers
with respect

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Do For Love..Caldwell and then Tupac

The song that just popped in my head is Bobby Caldwell's "What You Won't Do For Love". It wasn't so much the lyrics but the instrumental. It is very soothing, romantic and mellow. The instruments seem to come alive! Bobby's lyrics are great too - "you tried everything but you won't give up" and "my friends wonder what is wrong with me...cause I'm in a daze from your loving scene".

Tupac's "Do For Love" is also smooth too as it samples the instrumental and the chorus. I am not sure who sang the hook 2pac but the voice is very similar to Caldwell's and this is a nice touch. 2pac's version has additional modern sounds but the essence is there especially in the hook.

With this instrumental, it's really about the energy from the musicians so the singer/rappers just have to perform and make the song a total package.

New artists, take note. Learn from the greats.......

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