Once upon a time, there was a man who lived in a little house on a big hill. He had very few neighbors and very few luxuries of life. He had two heads of cattle, five goats, five sheep and ten rabbits. He also had a vegetable garden and many fruit trees. He always preferred to have access to food rather than a big house. He felt that if he wanted to attract a good woman, he would impress her with his bountiful garden rather than a big empty house.
This man had a neighbor on the opposite hill who built a large home because he wanted a woman who would be attracted to his wealth. He wanted her to be able to fill his house with friends and children. If he could fill his five acres with just the house alone he would because a woman could fill the estate with people who could admire his wealth.
The two men could find women that suit their wishes - good woman who wants to build a family based on principles or a woman who is attracted to wealth. We can look at these two men as examples of the way our leaders envision the future in our country. Do we want leaders who will only want to attract wealthy investors but who do not seek to build a nation with proper infrastructure, environmental preservation and food security? Or do we want leaders who will think about the future?
Do you think that if a flood occurs in the valley, the neighbor will be able to survive if he has no food planted? What will he do if his water sources run out? Will the people he wanted to attract with his wealth be there to help him rebuild? What will the man with his little house do? Do you think he will manage?
ribbon
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Tuesday, May 3, 2011
Why Supervisors and Employees Disagree
There are
times when the managers and the staff will disagree. Salary, promotion and
micro-management are some of the causes of the disagreements.
Managers and
supervisors need to have healthy working relationships and clear communication
with the employees so that work flows and on-the-job conflicts can be solved in
a timely manner. However, despite how supervisors and staff may try, there will
be times when they disagree. These parties disagree because of promotional opportunities,
a breakdown in communication, salary, micromanagement and inappropriate
behavior.
Promotion
Employees look forward to working in an
organization that has room for growth and promotion.
According to
Gregorio Billikopf, author of Labor Management in Agriculture from the College
of Natural Resources of the University of California, Berkeley,
"organizational movements, such as promotions, transfers, job rotations,
demotions, and layoffs may alter workers' security, satisfaction and productivity".
When an employee sees that others are pushed forward, while he is not promoted,
he will be disheartened. The employee can get disgruntled and disagree not only
with the supervisor but with the other employees. On the other hand, the
manager can fall out with an employee who was promoted and is not delivering a
high level of work as expected.
Performing the
Duties of Others
Have you ever
worked in an organization where the supervisor recognizes that you have special
talents? If you have, you may have been stuck with tasks outside your job
description. Sometimes the tasks are actually those of other employees who are
somehow unable to perform. If the tasks are relevant to your position, then you
can add same to your resume. However, employees can quickly get frustrated when
other staff's work is set upon them just because they can excel at simple tasks
like adding page numbers to a document or formatting a memo. When employees are
singled out to perform tasks that others should
be doing, it can lead to frustration.
Breakdown in Communication
A breakdown in communication can be unclear
communication or lack of communication. Unclear communication causes rifts
between couples, with friends and certainly between employees and supervisors.
According to the Jamaica Gleaner in a September 23, 2007 article, "
Communication Likely to Affect Loyalty in the Workplace - JEF ", "a
group of workers surveyed by the Jamaica Employers' Federation (JEF) has
identified communication at the workplace as the number one factor likely to
influence their loyalty to their organizations". Communication breakdown
can occur in the sharing of complaints and qualms, whether considered
insignificant or major. It can also happen when tasks given out are vague. Both
the employer and the employee have to ensure that communication is clear and
definitive to avoid conflict.
Salary Issues
Salary, especially
with the soaring oil and food prices, is very important to employees in all
levels in an organization. Any action that affects an employee's take home pay,
specifically a decrease, will be cause for disagreement
with the supervisor. In some instances, an employee may have exceeded the
allotted sick days or vacation leave for a year and has to take leave without
pay. This instance may also fall under the unclear communication heading if the
supervisor does not explain the company's policy and the country's labor
laws.
Micro-management
There are some
employees that need constant supervision. However, many staff members are
capable of executing their tasks with little or no supervision. Miriam-Webster
Dictionary defines micromanage
as "to manage especially with excessive control or attention to details".
Employees, especially those who are mid-level to senior staff members, may want
to work independently on most projects. An example where micromanagement may
lead to disagreement is where a senior worker is assigned a project and is
implementing said task with a team of peers and subordinates. When the manager
intercedes and gives new tasks or orders changes to the subordinates, then
there is a strong chance that there will be a negative interaction between the
project head and manager. Micromanagement in such a case also causes the
subordinates to be confused and they may lose confidence in the project head.
Disrespectful or
Inappropriate Behavior
There is no toleration
for disrespectful or sexually suggestive behavior in the workplace. This is not only a
cause for contention and can also bring litigation by the employee or the
employer. Even if your supervisor swears, that is no indication that any
employee should follow such behavior. Sexual advances are also not acceptable
by either the management or the staff or across either level.
There are
several reasons why employees and supervisor disagree. While we hope to have a
peaceful work environment, contention will occur. When disagreement becomes
constant, then all sides need to meet on all issues, with a mediator if needed,
to get the organization running optimally without
unnecessary
disturbances.
Sources:
- Communication Likely to Affect Loyalty in the Workplace - JEF", Jamaica Gleaner, Published September 23, 2007 and accessed online May 3, 2011
- Miriam-Webster Dictionary, accessed online on May 3, 2011
- Billikopf, Gregorio. Labor Management in Agriculture (2nd Edition, 2003). College of Natural Resources of the University of California, Berkeley. Accessed online version on May 3, 2011.
POEM: I have
and I've seen the fallen rise
I have travelled to the hilltops
as I asked God to open my eyes
I've roared like a mountain lion
I've risen to the mighty call
I have lived in the naked nature
I've sat in trees majestically tall
I've prayed with the downtrodden
I've given them a helping hand
I've seen the struggles of ten thousand
I walked with them on the black sand
I want to be among the mighty
I love nature's open call
I wish for peace among the nations
for us to all stand strong and tall
ribbon
Monday, May 2, 2011
Nature - Trying to love it all
Nature is so beautiful. There are things in nature that scare us, however. I love the trees except for the posionous ones like the Machineel. I love butterflies but I can't stand cockroaches, scorpions, tarantulas and centipedes, which are all somewhat poisonous. I do like the oleander, the national flower of the British Virgin Islands, but it is also poisonous yet beautiful.
Nature has so many varying species - all somewhat related yet so different. Nature encompasses the land, sea and air along with us. Our role is to sustainably shepherd the environment so that it will replenish until God comes for his world.
I realize that the Food Chain, Water Cycle and other such theories show balance and replenishing. If I try to eradicate all the honey bees, then there will be havoc - no pollination and no honey. If I rid the world of lizards and geckos, we will be run over by flies and mosquitos, another insect that I do not like at all.
Life is nature and nature is balance. Enjoy the environment and try to take care of it. Manage your waste responsibly and appreciate Mother Earth.
Nature has so many varying species - all somewhat related yet so different. Nature encompasses the land, sea and air along with us. Our role is to sustainably shepherd the environment so that it will replenish until God comes for his world.
I realize that the Food Chain, Water Cycle and other such theories show balance and replenishing. If I try to eradicate all the honey bees, then there will be havoc - no pollination and no honey. If I rid the world of lizards and geckos, we will be run over by flies and mosquitos, another insect that I do not like at all.
Life is nature and nature is balance. Enjoy the environment and try to take care of it. Manage your waste responsibly and appreciate Mother Earth.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Ribbon Bares Her Soul....
If I could turn back the hands of time, I would not. God has a perfect plan in place and in play so why would I want to mess with that. It makes no sense for me to wish that I had more, said more or did less. It's already happened. I can only strive to encourage those around me to do right and not to fall into the traps I fell into.
I may say that slavery should not have happened or any of the wars. I may have tried to stop the natural disasters or nuclear disasters. I may want to save the environment. However, it is in the Almighty Father's hands. I can only be the best steward and flock leader that I can be.
I have done many a wrong and will not pretend that I am perfect. I have fallen down and have gotten back up. I am crawling right now and am trying to get better. There is no reward in false pretense and trying to put on airs. That air will deflate and drop you. I will not steal to look good or drive a big car. I will not be hungry because of credit card debt for nonsensical things.
I have accepted that I can not turn back the hands of time. I can not change the past. I can look back and see my errors and try to be better today. I can inspire others with my story in the effort to keep them on the right path.
I am not the perfect role model and never will be. I'm just the abnormal thinker who will not try to change the past but who will forge ahead for a better tomorrow. It is God's will and is all in his hands.
I may say that slavery should not have happened or any of the wars. I may have tried to stop the natural disasters or nuclear disasters. I may want to save the environment. However, it is in the Almighty Father's hands. I can only be the best steward and flock leader that I can be.
I have done many a wrong and will not pretend that I am perfect. I have fallen down and have gotten back up. I am crawling right now and am trying to get better. There is no reward in false pretense and trying to put on airs. That air will deflate and drop you. I will not steal to look good or drive a big car. I will not be hungry because of credit card debt for nonsensical things.
I have accepted that I can not turn back the hands of time. I can not change the past. I can look back and see my errors and try to be better today. I can inspire others with my story in the effort to keep them on the right path.
I am not the perfect role model and never will be. I'm just the abnormal thinker who will not try to change the past but who will forge ahead for a better tomorrow. It is God's will and is all in his hands.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
'Words of Ribbon' has gone Bipolar!
Ribbon's got a lot of crazy thoughts in her head. I look at the rising crime, social problems and the injustice along with the natural disasters and try not to get to stressed. I still want to relax. I still want to poke fun at the lighter stuff. Afterall, stress will kill you - quickly too.
So there is an incident where someone was 'allegedly' caught smuggling drugs and a cellular phone to someone on lockdown. Ribbon started her crazy thinking and said to herself, 'hmmmm, don't bring me drugs or a phone, bring some rope, sleeping gas, a gas mask and a helicopter so I can get out of here'. I know I am so wrong to think that way but I guess I'm just to idle right now.
I look at all the would-be politicians. Some are calling names already. There's talk of who is 'damaged goods'. We are all damaged goods but if I guess it's all up to perception.
I look at more money going to the 'rest and relaxation' industry. However, I think we need to take care of the 'icky business' in the capital before we advertise for more visitors, unless we are going to hold the visitors on the sister islands.
There has much development in the capital and I think these new developments are part of the reason for the worsening 'icky business'. I have no Masters Degree or PHD like some people who can't write a sentence properly do, but common sense should prevail.
I will stop now before I get in hot or cold water.
ribbon
So there is an incident where someone was 'allegedly' caught smuggling drugs and a cellular phone to someone on lockdown. Ribbon started her crazy thinking and said to herself, 'hmmmm, don't bring me drugs or a phone, bring some rope, sleeping gas, a gas mask and a helicopter so I can get out of here'. I know I am so wrong to think that way but I guess I'm just to idle right now.
I look at all the would-be politicians. Some are calling names already. There's talk of who is 'damaged goods'. We are all damaged goods but if I guess it's all up to perception.
I look at more money going to the 'rest and relaxation' industry. However, I think we need to take care of the 'icky business' in the capital before we advertise for more visitors, unless we are going to hold the visitors on the sister islands.
There has much development in the capital and I think these new developments are part of the reason for the worsening 'icky business'. I have no Masters Degree or PHD like some people who can't write a sentence properly do, but common sense should prevail.
I will stop now before I get in hot or cold water.
ribbon
Friday, April 29, 2011
Six Reasons Why Landlords and Tenants Disagree or Fall Out
Landlords
and tenants can live harmoniously. However, several factors, including
maintenance and unreasonable behavior, can cause them to disagree.
Securing a safe and
affordable place to live is sometimes difficult. Rent typically is the largest
expense that families face. For persons who are landlords, rent is also a
source of income. When the landlord and the tenant have a good and understanding
relationship, small issues and problems can be resolved. However, there are
times that the relationship can become tumultuous and either party may have to
break the lease or seek legal advice. Some reasons that tenants and landlords
may disagree include the payment of rent, premature breaking of the lease, the
utility bills and constant maintenance issues. Unbearable behavior by either
party may also cause problems with the landlord and tenant.
Payment of Rent
Most landlords have a lease or they would orally
state the terms for the rent payment. There is also a grace period for the
payment to be made without penalties being incurred. The fastest way to get
evicted from an apartment is to not pay the rent or consistently pay the rent
late, that is, after the stated grace period. On the other hand, tenants have
to be cautious of landlords who may ask for the rent early. They must also be
wary of landlords who pretend to forget that the rent was paid. Always collect
your receipts when payment is made since such unscrupulous persons may try to
defraud a tenant.
Breaking the
Lease
A lease is a
contract, and breaking it prematurely can cause difficulty for both landlord
and tenant. A
tenant who is
evicted or asked to leave for any other reason has the task of finding another
apartment within the same area, comfort and price. In some countries, this is
very difficult. When a tenant breaks a lease prematurely, the landlord has the
difficulty of getting the apartment ready and costs of re- dvertising it and
screening new tenants. This means that the apartment sits empty, which means no
income and a broken relationship between the landlord and tenant.
Payment of
Utility Bills
In the British
Virgin Islands, some landlords include the basic utilities of water and
electricity in the rent. Some require tenants to pay the utility bills
separately, but the bill remains in the landlord's name. In some cases, tenants
are asked by landlords to register the utilities themselves, therefore making
the payment. In any case, if a tenant forfeits on the utilities, this affects
the landlord who will have to clear those bills if this tenant leaves without
paying them. If the landlord is responsible for the bills and he or she is late
with the payment, a tenant could find herself in the dark or without water or
gas, which is reason for
disagreement.
Constant
Maintenance Mishaps
Lack of maintenance
is definitely hard for a tenant to live peacefully with. It may be a broken
faucet, a noisy toilet or a backed-up tub. It can get as bad as a broken window
during the winter. If a landlord does not handle problems in a reasonable
amount of time, the tenant will get frustrated and may be living in unsanitary
and unsecure conditions for a long time.
Renovations
A landlord may opt
to perform extreme renovations while the tenant is
still living in the apartment. Extreme renovations include changing windows and
doors that require larger frames and changing tubs and other bathroom fixtures.
This not only inconveniences the tenant but puts them at risk for their health
and security because there may be strange contractors in their home. I was
living in an apartment, and the landlord conducted some major renovations while
I was there. The result was a constantly messy and unsecure apartment and my
eventual eviction for sharing my concerns
about the lack of professionalism by the contractors handling the renovations.
Unreasonable
Behavior
A landlord and
tenant may end their relationship when there is constant unreasonable behavior
by either party. Excessive noise, incidences of domestic violence, sexual
advances and gossip can be reasons for either party to come to contention.
Landlords may enter their tenant's home without the tenant's consent or without
the tenant being present in the cases where there may be flooding, fire or
another plausible reason. However, landlords who enter their tenant's home just
out of curiosity are invading their tenant's privacy. When tenants realize that
their home is being searched, this is a sure source for contention with the
landlord.
A tenant and landlord
should have a good understanding and be able to solve problems in an efficient
manner. However, there are times when they disagree because on non- payment of
rent, renovations or unreasonable behavior by either party. It is hoped that
such disagreements can be solved before the tenant is evicted or breaks the
lease, or worse, either party heads to litigation.
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