Paying Attention to the Little Things

Yesterday, I told my son that he needs to pay careful attention to what he is doing and reading. I also told him that there are adults who do not pay attention to anything that they do. They do a mediocre job when asked to do something and even when they volunteer, it is still not up to par.

It is frustrating dealing with people who behave like that and unfortunately, in today's crazy world, there is a lot of mediocrity out there. We get in from the teachers, employees, students, churches etc. It is sad that no one prides themselves in a job well done anymore. Things will never be perfect, however, we have to strive do well when we say we will do something.

I look at our children today and it's a fight to get them to do the right thing. You have to fight with the adults to do the right thing. So the present is shady and the future really does not seem that bright if we maintain this stance. What makes it worse is that no one wants to be guided or disciplined. How can we put up with these behaviors? When you try to correct people, they take it personal. However, rules are meant to be followed otherwise it would be total chaos in the world.

Each one of us can take a step to make the right decision or to utter a positive word to someone going down the wrong path. Do what you can to inspire someone.

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POEM: Do What You Have To

Sometimes we jump into life
without a thought
and that's the way some things
should be handled
other things need that
due consideration
and meditation
so that positive
vibrations
can run through
not every decision will
be liked
but you don't
always have foresight
to predict the reactions
and a contraction
won't help
you just have to be you
do you
and live life
and be true
so do what you have to

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Prayer for June 5, 2013

Today is June 5, 2013. Thank you Lord for another day. My prayer for today is:

Lord, I have been selfish, miserable and conceited and I would like to change my ways. Lord, help me to be patient, kind-hearted, giving and understanding. I pray for the world as we are going through some perilous times where the future has become more unsure. Help us to stay grounded and focused on living right and doing right. Strengthen us Lord so that we can have positive attributes and live lives that are pleasing to you.

AMEN

POEM: Risk Taker

I see a new way...
now it's about timing'
refining
and designing
the way forward
I don't want to be
afraid
I don't want to be
apprehensive
about taking
a leap of faith
because
no risks
mean
no progress
something's got to give
and it's my will
I have to take
the steps
necessary
to chart a path
that will get me to my goals
So when you see
change on the horizon
accept it
or move on
because
regardless of your feelings
life has to go on

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Poem for a Sister Who Has Trod On

Positively radiant,
inspiring, a true gem...
an example to all women,
a nurturer,
a diligent worker,
someone you can
depend on -
a lady who showed
positivity
in every step
she took,
one that we'll always remember
because when this sister smiled
her positive energy
was shared with all
in her presence

Rest in Peace, Ijahkey.

Change is Good

Change is good. There are situations where people can't deal with it. In most cases, I welcome it and embrace it. If I wasn't open to change in my younger days, I would not be the person I am today. Sometimes, we have to step out of our box to learn new things and meet new people. 

We have to be able to seek improvement for ourselves. What is the next step that you can take to launch your career to the next level? Is a degree or training needed? Do you need to master a new skill? I took a 6-week online course and it made make think differently.

What about your children? I have been using online games to help them and I think it is working. I get them involved in events and competitions so that they can build their confidence. I am very candid with them and I have told them that I expect more as they get older.

Could joining an organization help you. You can meet new people and maybe you may get involved in community activities that can benefit others.

Take a step forward. Take a leading role and see how you can progress and improve your life.

Be encouraged.

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Just one of those days

When you are able to make decisions, you have to be careful. Sometimes, we have to think things through. I'm sometimes too hasty but I am working on that. I have to work on myself and keep trying to improve.

On another note, I met a lady who was an inspiration to many. She passed today and she will be missed. She has been a positive influence on me and I don't think I ever told her that. She was diligent, positive, beautiful and courageous. May she rest in peace and may her legacy be carried through her generations.

Be sure to tell people thanks, compliment them and encourage them!

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